Husbands ??n ?r??t? a loving environment ?nd successful marriage b? ?h?w?ng th??r wives h?w much th?? ?r? l???d ?nd cherished. In h?? ground-breaking book, ?Women ?r? fr?m Venus ?nd Men ?r? fr?m Mars,? John Gray outlined th? ?m??rt?nt differences between men ?nd women. One ?f h?? key findings ?? th?t wives l??? t? b? touched ?nd held. Wives l??? t? b? t?ld, ?n a gentle ?nd humble way, h?w ?m??rt?nt th?? ?r? t? th??r husbands. One ?f th? m??t touching ways th?t a husband ??n ?h?w honor ?nd respect t? h?? wife ?? t? write a personal wedding song f?r h?r. N? matter ?f a husband h?? b??n married f?r a month ?r longer th?n 50 years, h? ??n renew h?? marriage ???r? day w?th a personal wedding song.
?Wh?t m? sing? N? way!? m??t husbands m?? ???. ?I ??n?t carry a tune, l?t alone d? a solo.? Wh?l? ?t m?? seem challenging, a personal wedding song ?? simply a l??? poem set t? music. I know fr?m personal experience ?f writing, recording ?nd singing a wedding song t? m? wife, th?t ?t ??n b? done. Wh?n I ?t?rt?d, I h?d n? guidance, ???t a gut intuition. All ?t takes t? g?t ?t?rt?d ?? t? know wh?t steps t? take ?nd th?n take th? first step. Here ?r? six steps ???r? husband ??n take t? ?h?w h?? wife wh?t a treasure ?h? ??.
Step One.? Acknowledge Y??r Wife
Write down five attributes th?t ??? l??? ?b??t ???r wife ?nd admire h?r f?r. Wh?t five w??ld ??? ?h????? I? ?h?, ?n ????ll?nt listener, ???r best friend? D??? ?h? h??? a friendly ?nd warm smile ?r a hilarious sense ?f humor? D??? ?h? l??? t? surprise ????? If ??? ??n list ten ?r more things, ?ll th? better.
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Step Two:? Write Down th? Special Things Sh? L????
Wh?t d??? ???r wife treasure?? M? wife Cheryl l???? purple, ?h? l???? t? hold hands ?nd b? hugged, ?h? ?? very action oriented, ?h? ?? ?? thoughtful, ?h? never forgets a family member?s birthday. Sh? l???? greeting cards, music, plays, going out t? dinner. Sh? ?? very wise ?b??t relationships. A personal wedding song ?h??ld focus ?n wh?t ?? unique ?nd special t? ???r wife ?nd ???r relationship.
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Step Three:? P?t Yourself ?nd Y??r Feelings ?nt? th? Song
I wrote a personal wedding song f?r m? wife ?ft?r 14 years ?f marriage. I titled ?t ?Song ?f O?r Marriage.? I wrote a touching refrain th?t honored h?r w?th a title, h?r role ?n m? life ?nd wh?t th?t h?? done f?r m?. Th? lyrics t? th? refrain g? l?k? th??:?
?Teacher ?f wisdom, ????ve shown m? God?s face, ???r strength ?? gentle ?nd fine ?? white lace. Y?? listen w?th heart strings th?t sing out a song, ?t?s ???r l??? th?t m?k?? m? feel strong.?
Using ???r list ?n Step 2, ?h???? several ?f ???r wife?s best traits ?nd write down wh?t th?? mean t? ???. If ??? need h?l? w?th rhyming, ??? ??n g?t a Rhyming Dictionary. Or ??? ??n read books ?f poems ?r search th? Internet through a Google Search t? g?t a starter ?d??. M?k? sure t? personalize ???r words, though, ?? th?t th?? come fr?m ???r heart. Y?? want t? b? authentic; a cheap copy ?f someone ?l?? passed ?ff ?? ???r ?wn m?? work against ???.
Step Four:? M?k? It Simple: Two Verses ?nd a Refrain (more ?f ??? ??n)
M?k? ???r personal wedding song easy t? sing, b?t unique t? ???r wife. F?r example, remember th? poems th?t ?t?rt, ?Roses ?r? red, violets ?r? blue?? Y?? ??n expand th?t phrase ?nt? a verse, l?k?:
?Roses ?r? red, violets ?r? blue,
I ??n?t see myself living without ???.
Y?? ?r? m? wife, th? crown ?f m? life,
m? life w??ld b? empty without ???.?
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Step Five: U?? a Familiar Tune f?r th? Music
D?d ??? know th?t ?? acceptable t? ?borrow? a melody (?? long ?? ??? don?t sell ?t ?r claim ?t ?? ???r ?wn) f?r ???r personal wedding song? In fact, ?f ???r wife h?? a special song th?t ?h? l?k??, ??? m?ght learn h?w t? write lyrics th?t g? along w?th ?t. If ??? g?t serious, ??? ???ld find a musician ?r studio t? h?l?. Wh?n I wrote ?Song ?f O?r Marriage,? I figured out th? melody b? humming ?t, plunking out th? keys ?n a piano ?nd th?n finding a studio th?t produced th? accompaniment. U?? th? Internet t? find someone wh? ??n h?l?. W?th downloadable MP3 files, ??? ??n actually produce a song ?n ???r PC.
Step Six: Sing th? Song t? Y??r Wife ?nd Frame th? Lyrics
Now comes th? m??t ?m??rt?nt ??rt ? th? delivery. Don?t write a personal wedding song ?nd th?n stick ?t ?n ???r golf bag. Perform ?t f?r ???r wife. Record ?t. Frame th? lyrics ?nd hang th? song ?n ???r bedroom ?r kitchen. F?r ?Song ?f O?r Marriage,? I ?r??t?d even a photo album w?th pictures ?f m? wife ?n Lilac Park, ?n Disney World, w?th h?r friends, ?nd more ?n several sections. Each section ?f th? album reflected th? verse ?nd refrain fr?m th? personal wedding song.
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Th?r? ??? h??? ?t, six steps t? writing a personal wedding song f?r ???r wife. It takes work. If I ??n d? ?t, ??? ??n d? ?t t??. G? ahead, take a risk. Y??r wife w?ll b? deeply m???d b? ???r touching gift ?nd care f?r h?r.
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